“You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.”
-Maya Angelou
Author: yvettesojourner
Here’s what I’ve been reflecting on this week. As Haruki Murakam once said, “If you only read the books that everyone else is reading, you can only think what everyone else is thinking.” I believe this is applicable to everything we read.
READ
Ha! Quinta Brunson Missed the Quiet-Quitting Memo, Cosmopolitan
All of this. 12 Expert-Backed Financial Resolutions To Make This Year—And How To Achieve Them, The Everygirl
I had to read this a few times. Such a good read! On Lizzo, Megan Thee Stallion, and Black Nerd Girl Culture, Teen Vogue
While we’re on the topic. The Black Nerds Redefining the Culture, The New York Times
Here’s some inspiration for you. Love this!!! This 72-Year-Old Whose Bikini Shots Went Viral Says Your Moment Is Right Now, Sisters From AARP
For me alone time is a MUST. 6 Tips for Politely Telling Your Partner You Need Alone Time, Self
Create
I have my moments when I yearn to do something repetitive sooooo I turn to Legos or puzzles. I use to color but…. When it comes to puzzles I LOVE JIGGY!!! Have you seen Edwina Owens Elliott’s collection? FABULOUS!!!!
I’ve completed and framed:
Portrait Design 091, Natasha Cunningham
And Reyna, Reyna Noriega which is no longer available
Listen
I’ve also been listening to Fred White’s music all month. Earth, Wind and Fire Drumming Prodigy Fred White Dead at 67, Rolling Stone
WRITE
I didn’t know where to put this one sooooo opted to drop it here. I wish there was audio for this. I love hearing the voices during interviews. Nikki Giovanni on Rest, Love, and Care, Public Books
Ocean Vuong on Taking the Time You Need to Write, LitHub
What I Do: I don’t have access or a subscription to various newspapers or magazines i.e. the New York Times. So, I checked with my local library. I’ve learned I have access to the New York Times free with my library card. Always check with your local library to see what offerings are available to you.
“The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any.”
-Alice Walker
Here’s what I’ve been reflecting on this week. As Haruki Murakam once said, “If you only read the books that everyone else is reading, you can only think what everyone else is thinking.” I believe this is applicable to everything we read.
READ
This! ‘I Don’t Want to Die’: Fighting Maternal Mortality Among Black Women, The New York Times
While we’re on the subject. Meet The Organization Shaping the Future of Black Maternal Health, Thinx
Yep. Why We Actually Need More Mindless Activities, lifehacker
If you were wondering. Also, there is a useful rep calculator. I’m a Trainer, and This Is How Heavy Your Weights Actually Need to Be to Build Muscle, PopSugar
Always nice to have a reminder. The Case for True Rest Over ‘Active Recovery’, Self
Ooooooo. Here’s What a Balanced and Effective Weekly Workout Plan Actually Looks Like, Self
I’m all about it! Stay Strong, Slim, Sharp and Sexy at 40, 50, 60 …, Sisters From AARP
Interesting. Being vs Doing: The Difference Between “Being” and “Doing”, mindful
watch
I want to see this! Zora Neale Hurston: Claiming a Space, American Experience
Listen
Yes, please and thank you. 4 Podcasts by Black Women to Listen to Now, Sisters From AARP
Since the passing of Anita PointerI’ve been listening to the Pointer Sisters’ on repeat. Anita Pointer was the lead vocalist for many of the Pointer Sisters’ Top 40 hits and helped define their pop sound in the 1980s., The New York Times
WRITE
Lucy Sante on Writing with the Back Brain, LitHub
What I Do: I don’t have access or a subscription to various newspapers or magazines i.e. the New York Times. So, I checked with my local library. I’ve learned I have access to the New York Times free with my library card. Always check with your local library to see what offerings are available to you.
“No one is your friend who demands your silence or denies your right to grow.”
-Alice Walker
Here’s what I’ve been reflecting on this week. As Haruki Murakam once said, “If you only read the books that everyone else is reading, you can only think what everyone else is thinking.” I believe this is applicable to everything we read.
READ
Yep! 10 Ways Listening to Your Health Apps Can Backfire, lifehacker
If you’re into resolutions and looking for things to try. 60 Realistic New Year’s Resolutions You Can Totally Achieve This Year, TheEverygirl
Good question. What Does It Mean to Really, Truly Rest?, Self
Yasssssss 👏🏾, while we’re on the subject. The Founder of the Nap Ministry on the Ways Rest Can Be a Form of Resistance, Self
Such a good question! If You Stopped Fretting About Your Figure, How Would You Use That Time?, Sisters From AARP
Wait, what?! Your Super-Tight Leggings Might Be Messing With Your Core and Pelvic Floor, PopSugar
listen
A Restorative Self-Care Playlist to Put On While You Hang Out and Do Nothing, SELF
WRITE
Emily Gould on How (and Why) to Keep Writing When Writing Feels Pointless, LitHub
What I Do: I don’t have access or a subscription to various newspapers or magazines i.e. the New York Times. So, I checked with my local library. I’ve learned I have access to the New York Times free with my library card. Always check with your local library to see what offerings are available to you.
“Maybe the journey isn’t so much about becoming anything. Maybe it’s about un-becoming everything that isn’t really you, so you can be who you were meant to be in the first place.”
-Paul Coelho
Did you know January is national self love month??!! Here’s what I’ve been reflecting on this week. As Haruki Murakam once said, “If you only read the books that everyone else is reading, you can only think what everyone else is thinking.” I believe this is applicable to everything we read.
READ
I love wearing Chanel No 5!!! Why the History of Its Fragrances Is So Important to Chanel, PopSugar
Yep! The Best Investment to Make in 2023 Is in Yourself, WSJ
Such FABULOUS suggestions! 14 Small (yet Effective) Actions For a Happier and Healthier 2023, Sisters From AARP
Now this is interesting. Two Barbers, a YouTube Channel and the Truth About Race at the Racetrack, New York Times
A must read. The luxury tax assessed on Black women, Andscape
THIS!!!! The Mindf*ck of Midlife, The Cut
A must read! Suicidal thoughts are often hidden. Here’s how to talk about it, Washington Post
Good hacks. 5 Brilliant Wardrobe Hacks for When Your Weight Is Changing, Sisters From AARP
Yes, please and thank you. 6 Ways to Practice Mindful Eating, Mindful
listen
Have you heard of Elayne Jones?! Elayne Jones, Pioneering Percussionist, New York Times
WRITE
What to Read Before and After Seeing James Baldwin Abroad, LitHub
Tressie McMillan Cottom: Why Black People Are the Most Future People She Know, LitHub
What I Do: I don’t have access or a subscription to various newspapers or magazines i.e. the New York Times. So, I checked with my local library. I’ve learned I have access to the New York Times free with my library card. Always check with your local library to see what offerings are available to you.
“The question is whether or not you choose to disturb the world around you, or if you choose to let it go on as if you had never arrived.”
-Ann Patchett